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Connected Quote by Sharon Salzberg

“Throughout our lives we long to love ourselves more deeply and to feel connected with others. Instead, we often contract, fear intimacy, and suffer a bewildering sense of separation. We crave love, and yet we are lonely. Our delusion of being separate from one another, of being apart from all that…” quote by Sharon Salzberg
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“Throughout our lives we long to love ourselves more deeply and to feel connected with others. Instead, we often contract, fear intimacy, and suffer a bewildering sense of separation. We crave love, and yet we are lonely. Our delusion of being separate from one another, of being apart from all that is around us, gives rise to all of this pain.”

Sharon Salzberg

About This Quote

People desire deep self‑love and connection, yet fear intimacy and feel isolated, creating a painful illusion of separateness.

In simple terms: We crave love but often feel lonely because we see ourselves as separate.

Key Takeaway

Practice seeing ourselves as part of a larger whole.

Themes

love connection loneliness intimacy illusion

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • meditation groups
  • friendship circles
  • community events

Key Concepts

mindfulness attachment theory psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What blocks you from feeling connected?
  • How can you nurture self‑love without isolation?
A Different Perspective

Overcoming fear of intimacy requires confronting deep‑seated beliefs.

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