Communication Quote by Rysa Walker
““He recorded me once, so I know exactly how I look when I’m engaged in one of these internal dialogues—and that makes me determined to avoid them in public. My eyes go blank, unfocused, like no one’s home—which is ironic if you think about it, since the problem isn’t that nobody’s there, but rather that we’ve exceeded the maximum occupancy of one.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet by Becky Chambers, 2014
The speaker avoids deep internal monologue in public because it makes them appear disengaged and empty, highlighting social discomfort with self‑reflection when others are present.
In simple terms: Avoid showing blank, unfocused eyes in public.
Key Takeaway
Stay present and engaged socially.
Themes
social anxiety
self‑awareness
public perception
Mood
anxious
reflective
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- meetings
- presentations
- social gatherings
- networking
- public speaking
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- How does internal dialogue affect your public interactions?
- What strategies keep you present without blankness?
A Different Perspective
Public self‑reflection can still be valuable; avoid over‑control.
