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Death Quote by Robert Thurman

“When people are dying, they call their old enemies and try to forgive them and try to be forgiven by them. They call their old friends and affirm their love for them, as well as detach themselves from them, and they try to get into as free a space as they can so they're really ready to go. They…” quote by Robert Thurman
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“When people are dying, they call their old enemies and try to forgive them and try to be forgiven by them. They call their old friends and affirm their love for them, as well as detach themselves from them, and they try to get into as free a space as they can so they're really ready to go. They give away all their possessions and are as generous as possible. They give up old hatreds and grudges, and that's a wise intuitive thing, because it's much freer to live like that.”

Robert Thurman

About This Quote

Source Book: The Life of the Buddha, Robert Thurman, 1995

In later life people often seek reconciliation, generosity, and detachment to achieve inner peace before death.

In simple terms: People seek forgiveness and generosity at life's end.

Key Takeaway

Embrace forgiveness and generosity now.

Themes

forgiveness generosity detachment mortality inner peace

Mood

reflective hopeful serene

Type

advice philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • hospital visits
  • family reunions
  • estate planning
  • volunteering
  • spiritual counseling

Key Concepts

Buddhist philosophy psychology of end‑of‑life ethical living

Questions to Reflect On

  • What relationships would you heal today?
  • How can you practice generosity without waiting for death?
A Different Perspective

May not everyone have the capacity or opportunity to reconcile before death.

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