Abuse Quote by Robert G. Ingersoll
““I do not believe in the government of the lash, if any one of you ever expects to whip your children again, I want you to have a photograph taken of yourself when you are in the act, with your face red with vulgar anger, and the face of the little child, with eyes swimming in tears and the little chin dimpled with fear, like a piece of water struck by a sudden cold wind. Have the picture taken. If that little child should die, I cannot think of a sweeter way to spend an autumn afternoon than to go out to the cemetery, when the maples are clad in tender gold, and little scarlet runners are coming, like poems of regret, from the sad heart of the earth—and sit down upon the grave and look at that photograph, and think of the flesh now dust that you beat. I tell you it is wrong; it is no way to raise children! Make your home happy. Be honest with them. Divide fairly with them in everything.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Lecture on Parenting, 1885
The quote condemns harsh corporal punishment, urging empathy and kindness toward children, and suggests reflecting on the consequences of violence.
In simple terms: Violence against children is wrong; be kind and fair.
Key Takeaway
Treat children with love, not fear.
Themes
parenting
violence
empathy
justice
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
ethical
didactic
When to use this quote
- family meals
- school discipline
- child welfare policies
- parenting workshops
Key Concepts
moral philosophy
human rights
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How would you feel if you saw your own child suffering?
- What alternatives to discipline promote respect?
A Different Perspective
Children may not understand the long‑term impact of punishment; cultural norms may resist change.
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