Good deeds Quote by Reid Hoffman
““Relationship builders, on the other hand, try to help other people first. They don’t keep score. They’re aware that many good deeds get reciprocated, but they’re not calculated about it. And they think about their relationships all the time, not just when they need something.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Podcast “Masters of Scale”, 2019
People who prioritize helping others build lasting connections, trusting goodwill rather than keeping tally of favors.
In simple terms: Help others first, don’t count favors.
Key Takeaway
Focus on giving, not scoring.
Themes
relationships
generosity
trust
networking
Mood
warm
hopeful
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- team building
- mentorship
- community events
- collaborative projects
Key Concepts
reciprocity
social capital
empathy
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you ensure reciprocity without keeping score?
- What boundaries protect you from being taken advantage of?
A Different Perspective
May be exploited by those who take without giving.
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