Company Quote by Pema Chodron
“Usually we regard loneliness as an enemy. Heartache is not something we choose to invite in. It's restless and pregnant and hot with the desire to escape and find something or someone to keep us company. When we can rest in the middle, we begin to have a nonthreatening relationship with loneliness, a relaxing and cooling loneliness that completely turns our usual fearful patterns upside down.”
About This Quote
Source Book: When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron, 1996
Loneliness can be reframed from threat to a neutral space, allowing calm coexistence rather than fear.
In simple terms: Loneliness can be a calm companion.
Key Takeaway
Accept loneliness without fear.
Themes
loneliness
acceptance
mindfulness
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- meditation practice
- solo travel
- creative work
Key Concepts
psychology
self-compassion
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice calm with loneliness?
- What benefits arise from embracing solitude?
A Different Perspective
Loneliness may still trigger anxiety despite reframing.
