Giving Quote by Pema Chodron

“Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Source Book: When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron, 1996

Self‑compassion leads to compassion for others; neglecting oneself limits helping others.

In simple terms: Love yourself to love others.

Key Takeaway

Practice self‑care.

Themes

compassion self‑care interdependence

Mood

calming encouraging

Type

spiritual practical

When to use this quote

relationships
leadership
community service
mental health

Key Concepts

mindfulness empathy

Questions to Reflect On

How do you balance self‑love and altruism?
What self‑care habits support your relationships?

A Different Perspective

Self‑care can be seen as selfish.

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