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“Don't ask why the patient is the way he is, ask for what he would change.” quote by Milton H. Erickson
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“Don't ask why the patient is the way he is, ask for what he would change.”

Milton H. Erickson

About This Quote

Source Therapeutic Lecture, 1970

Focus on desired future changes rather than current causes.

In simple terms: Ask what changes you want, not why you are.

Key Takeaway

Shift focus to actionable change.

Themes

therapy change future-oriented goal setting

Mood

hopeful empowering

Type

therapeutic motivational

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • coaching
  • personal development

Key Concepts

solution-focused therapy cognitive restructuring behavioral change

Questions to Reflect On

  • What change would you most like to see?
  • How can you start moving toward that change?
A Different Perspective

Ignoring root causes may overlook underlying issues.

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