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Communication Quote by Lynne Tillman

“There's not usually one reason why we do anything and, in fact, often we don't know why we've done what we've done, especially what we have said or why, for instance, in conversation, which can be very tricky. Finally, we say something and think, "Why did we say that?" In retrospect we might know.” quote by Lynne Tillman
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“There's not usually one reason why we do anything and, in fact, often we don't know why we've done what we've done, especially what we have said or why, for instance, in conversation, which can be very tricky. Finally, we say something and think, "Why did we say that?" In retrospect we might know.”

Lynne Tillman

About This Quote

Source Interview: Conversation on Human Motivation, 2020

Human actions often stem from multiple, unclear motives, making self‑interpretation difficult.

In simple terms: We act for many reasons, often unknown.

Key Takeaway

Accept ambiguity and reflect on patterns.

Themes

psychology communication self‑awareness

Mood

curious introspective

Type

philosophical conversational

When to use this quote

  • daily conversations
  • decision making
  • personal journaling

Key Concepts

motivation cognitive bias reflection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What hidden motives drive your words?
  • How can you become more aware of subconscious influences?
A Different Perspective

Understanding motives may never be fully possible.

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