Communication Quote by Lynne Tillman
“There's not usually one reason why we do anything and, in fact, often we don't know why we've done what we've done, especially what we have said or why, for instance, in conversation, which can be very tricky. Finally, we say something and think, "Why did we say that?" In retrospect we might know.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Conversation on Human Motivation, 2020
Human actions often stem from multiple, unclear motives, making self‑interpretation difficult.
In simple terms: We act for many reasons, often unknown.
Accept ambiguity and reflect on patterns.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- daily conversations
- decision making
- personal journaling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What hidden motives drive your words?
- How can you become more aware of subconscious influences?
Understanding motives may never be fully possible.