Marriage Quote by Jane Austen
““Now I have done," cried Captain Wentworth. "When once married people begin to attack me with,--'Oh! you will think very differently, when you are married.' I can only say, 'No, I shall not;' and then they say again, 'Yes, you will,' and there is an end of it.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Persuasion by Jane Austen, 1817
The character resists societal pressure to change after marriage, asserting independence despite others’ expectations.
In simple terms: Marriage doesn’t have to change you; stay true to yourself.
Key Takeaway
Maintain personal identity after marriage.
Themes
marriage
societal pressure
individuality
Mood
lighthearted
thoughtful
Type
literary
dialogue
When to use this quote
- family life
- social gatherings
- career after marriage
- peer influence
Key Concepts
social conformity
personal autonomy
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance personal change with partner expectations?
- When is it healthy to adapt?
A Different Perspective
The dialogue is humorous and may not reflect serious conflict.
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