Life lesson Quote by Iyanla Vanzant
“When you give to others to the degree you sacrifice yourself, you make others a thief. They are stealing from you what you need, and they dont even know it.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Spiritual Survivor by Iyanla Vanzant, 2003
Self‑sacrifice can be exploited by others who unknowingly take what you need, leaving you depleted.
In simple terms: Giving too much lets others drain you.
Guard your needs while helping.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- volunteering
- family caregiving
- workplace mentorship
- friendship
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize when giving harms you?
- What limits protect your well‑being?
Over‑giving can lead to burnout and resentment.