Approval Quote by Tobias Wolff
“When your power comes from others, on approval, you are their slave. Never sacrifice yourselves - never! Whoever urges you to self-sacrifice is worse than a common murderer, who at least cuts your throat himself, without persuading YOU to do it.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Power and Autonomy, 2012
Relying on others’ approval makes you dependent; true freedom requires self‑determination.
In simple terms: Don’t let others control you.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate independent judgment.
Themes
freedom
autonomy
power dynamics
Mood
critical
serious
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- leadership decisions
- personal boundaries
- political activism
Key Concepts
psychology
ethics
Questions to Reflect On
- What does autonomy mean to you?
- When is seeking approval beneficial?
A Different Perspective
Self‑reliance can be socially costly.
