Abundance Quote by Iyanla Vanzant
“We go into a relationship looking for love, not realizing that we must bring love with us. We must bring a strong sense of self and purpose into a relationship. We must bring a sense of value, of who we are. We must bring an excitement about ourselves, our lives, and the vision we have for these two essential elements. We must bring a respect for wealth and abundance. Having achieved it to some satisfactory degree on our own, we must move into relationships willing to share what we have, rather than being afraid of someone taking it.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Spiritual Life Lessons by Iyanla Vanzant, 2005
A healthy relationship requires entering with self‑love, confidence, and a sense of abundance, not seeking it from a partner.
In simple terms: Bring your own worth and purpose into love.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate self‑value before partnering.
Themes
self‑love
abundance
relationships
personal growth
Mood
hopeful
reflective
Type
advice
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- friendships
- business partnerships
Key Concepts
confidence
self‑worth
reciprocity
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you nurture self‑love daily?
- What does abundance mean to you?
A Different Perspective
If you lack self‑worth, you may still depend on a partner for validation.
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