Marriage Quote by Henry Cloud
““Don’t get angry with your spouse for her weakness! This is the worst thing you can ever do. It is using your strength in that area to destroy. If you have done that, if you have judged your spouse’s weakness or inability, put down this book and go apologize, if not for her sake, then for your own (see James 2:13).””
About This Quote
Source Book: Boundaries in Marriage, 2018
Criticizes blaming a spouse for weaknesses, urging humility and apology, referencing moral responsibility.
In simple terms: Don’t blame spouse; apologize
Apologize and respect spouse’s weakness
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marital conflict
- personal growth
- spiritual reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does true strength look like in marriage?
- How can you practice humility daily?
May overlook systemic issues; requires mutual effort