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Marriage Quote by Henry Cloud

“Don’t get angry with your spouse for her weakness! This is the worst thing you can ever do. It is using your strength in that area to destroy. If you have done that, if you have judged your spouse’s weakness or inability, put down this book and go apologize, if not for her sake, then for your own…” quote by Henry Cloud
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““Don’t get angry with your spouse for her weakness! This is the worst thing you can ever do. It is using your strength in that area to destroy. If you have done that, if you have judged your spouse’s weakness or inability, put down this book and go apologize, if not for her sake, then for your own (see James 2:13).””

Henry Cloud

About This Quote

Source Book: Boundaries in Marriage, 2018

Criticizes blaming a spouse for weaknesses, urging humility and apology, referencing moral responsibility.

In simple terms: Don’t blame spouse; apologize

Key Takeaway

Apologize and respect spouse’s weakness

Themes

marriage humility responsibility

Mood

reflective serious

Type

advice spiritual

When to use this quote

  • marital conflict
  • personal growth
  • spiritual reflection

Key Concepts

biblical ethics emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does true strength look like in marriage?
  • How can you practice humility daily?
A Different Perspective

May overlook systemic issues; requires mutual effort

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