The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that's present. — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“We often fear being honest because it was not safe to express honesty in our earthly relationships. With Job we fear both… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“There is always safety in the truth, whether it be knowing God’s truth or knowing the truth about yourself. Many people live… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
There is a big difference between hurt and harm. We all hurt sometimes in facing hard truths, but it makes us grow.… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“If every marriage placed value on holiness, the following would be present: Confession and ownership of the problems in each individual A… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“Grace is the first ingredient necessary for growing up in the image of God. Grace is unbroken, uninterrupted, unearned, accepting relationship. It… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it. — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“Time is an important ingredient for growth, but sometimes we pass through time and get better; at other times we pass through… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“The truth was that they did not really have a mature connection at all. They had a rescuing connection. When she was… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that's present. — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“Are we paying attention to what is important, inhibiting the things that will not help or will hurt us, and keeping current?” — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“Neglecting them leads to spiritual and emotional problems; having them met, however, frees us to meet the needs of others cheerfully and without resentment.… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“we need people to whom we can talk and who will understand without invalidating our feelings by saying the following: You shouldn’t feel that… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“What appear to be dangerous and even bad periods in some lives can actually bring them closer to the Lord, because these individuals honestly… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“We are drawn to Jesus because “he learned obedience from what he suffered” (Heb. 5:8). People who are growing up are also drawn to… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy, and you have to… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel. — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives. — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
“Forgiveness and opening up to more abuse are not the same thing. Forgiveness has to do with the past. Reconciliation and boundaries have to… — Henry Cloud Copy Share Image
