Appetite Quote by Gordon Neufeld
“Digital intimacy ruins the appetite for the real thing. So, when kids are gaming or even when spouses are gaming, they lose their appetite for genuine intimacy. Kids lose their appetite for getting their intimacy needs, their hunger for significance and attachment, with the family, and it erodes the relationship between them and their parents.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Importance of Play, 2010
Digital gaming reduces desire for genuine intimacy, weakening family bonds and emotional needs
In simple terms: Gaming erodes real intimacy appetite
Key Takeaway
Limit screen time to nurture relationships
Themes
technology
intimacy
family
Mood
concerned
thoughtful
Type
cautionary
observational
When to use this quote
- parent‑child interaction
- couples’ activities
- digital detox
- family meals
Key Concepts
digital addiction
emotional needs
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families set healthy gaming boundaries?
- What alternatives foster intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Not all gaming is harmful; moderation matters
