““Bun venit in lumea reala a casniciei, in care intotdeauna raman fire de par in chiuveta si sunt pete pe oglinda, iar discutiile pornesc de la felul in care este pus sulul de hartie igienica si daca trebuie lasat sau nu capacul toaletei. Este o lume in care pantofii n-ajung singuri in dulap, iar sertarele nu se inchid de la sine, hainelor nu le plac cuierele si sosetele nu sfarsesc direct in cos. In aceasta lume, si o privire poate jigni, iar un cuvant poate distruge totul. Iubitii au devenit intre timp dusmani, iar casnicia, un teren de lupta.””
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