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Attachment Quote by Gabor Maté

“Creatures of attachment are creatures of instinct and impulse. It doesn't feel good or right or proper to seek favor in the eyes of those one is seeking distance from. When looking for the approval of your peers, it is almost unbearable to find favor with adults.” quote by Gabor Maté
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““Creatures of attachment are creatures of instinct and impulse. It doesn't feel good or right or proper to seek favor in the eyes of those one is seeking distance from. When looking for the approval of your peers, it is almost unbearable to find favor with adults.””

Gabor Maté

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Power of Attachment, 2015

Seeking approval from those we distance from creates inner conflict and reduces authenticity.

In simple terms: Approval from distant people feels wrong.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic connections, not approval.

Themes

attachment authenticity social pressure

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

psychological advice

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • family dynamics
  • workplace relationships

Key Concepts

psychology self‑esteem

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do you chase approval from those you distance?
  • What authentic relationships support you?
A Different Perspective

Approval can compromise personal values.

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