Attachment Quote by Gabor Maté
““Creatures of attachment are creatures of instinct and impulse. It doesn't feel good or right or proper to seek favor in the eyes of those one is seeking distance from. When looking for the approval of your peers, it is almost unbearable to find favor with adults.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Power of Attachment, 2015
Seeking approval from those we distance from creates inner conflict and reduces authenticity.
In simple terms: Approval from distant people feels wrong.
Seek authentic connections, not approval.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendships
- family dynamics
- workplace relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do you chase approval from those you distance?
- What authentic relationships support you?
Approval can compromise personal values.