Children Quote by Fay Weldon
““What happens now is that if some unfortunate man goes to bed with some woman, overnight there's a divorce. He thinks and feels about the authenticity of his being, then they have to get married. So they just end up having serial marriages, which is distressing for the children. It would be much better if people just put up with the guilt of having erred and shut up.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Life and Loves of a She-Devil by Fay Weldon, 1983
The quote critiques the cycle of impulsive relationships and repeated marriages, suggesting that avoiding honest accountability leads to ongoing harm, especially for children.
In simple terms: Repeated impulsive marriages harm children; honesty is needed.
Key Takeaway
Accept responsibility instead of repeating mistakes.
Themes
relationships
marriage
consequences
children
accountability
Mood
reflective
critical
empathetic
Type
advice
social commentary
psychological insight
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- parenting
- marital counseling
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
social critique
psychology
family dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How does avoiding guilt affect long‑term family health?
- What are healthier ways to address marital failures?
A Different Perspective
Admitting fault may be socially uncomfortable and people people to stay in unhealthy unions.
