Husbands Quote by Fay Weldon
““Not satisfied with what he's got? Is that it? That's husbands all over. Ungrateful pigs. You do everything for them, you bring up their kids, you cook their food, you wash their clothes, you warm their beds, you fuss over your face day after day so they'll fancy you, you wear yourself out to keep them happy and at the end of it all, what happens? They find someone else they fancy more. Someone young some man hasn't had the chance to wear out yet. Marriage is a con trick. A girl should marry a rich man, then at least she'd have a fur coat to keep her warm in her old age.””
About This Quote
A cynical view of marriage as a transactional arrangement where women sacrifice themselves for men who ultimately seek younger, more attractive partners, highlighting perceived gender inequities and materialism.
In simple terms: Marriage as a transactional, gendered power imbalance.
Key Takeaway
Women are exploited for men's fleeting desires.
Themes
gender inequality
materialism
marriage criticism
feminist critique
ageism
Mood
cynical
disillusioned
defiant
Type
social commentary
feminist critique
When to use this quote
- women feeling undervalued in marriage
- seeking financial stability through marriage
- disillusionment after partner's infidelity
- older women confronting age-based rejection
Key Concepts
transactional relationships
sacrifice
infidelity
economic security
Practical Applications
- counseling on realistic expectations
- advocacy for equitable partnership
Questions to Reflect On
- How does societal pressure shape marital expectations?
- What alternatives exist to transactional marriage dynamics?
