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“There is a big deposit of sympathy in the bank of love, but don't draw out little sums every hour or so - so that by and by, when perhaps you need it badly, it is all drawn out and you yourself don't know how or on what it was spent.” quote by Emily Post
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“There is a big deposit of sympathy in the bank of love, but don't draw out little sums every hour or so - so that by and by, when perhaps you need it badly, it is all drawn out and you yourself don't know how or on what it was spent.”

Emily Post

About This Quote

Source Book: Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics by Emily Post, 1922

Love is a reservoir; giving small amounts constantly depletes it, leaving none for emergencies.

In simple terms: Small, frequent giving empties love's bank.

Key Takeaway

Conserve love for when it's truly needed.

Themes

generosity relationships self‑care

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • family support
  • emotional crises
  • long‑term relationships

Key Concepts

emotional economy boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you decide when to give support?
  • What signs show your emotional reserves are low?
A Different Perspective

Love can be exhausted if not managed; balance giving and saving.

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