Skip to content

Emotional people Quote by Emily Post

“Persons under the shock of genuine affliction are not only upset mentally but are all unbalanced physically. No matter how calm and controlled they seemingly may be, no one can under such circumstances be normal. Their disturbed circulation makes them cold, their distress makes them unstrung…” quote by Emily Post
Download Open image
““Persons under the shock of genuine affliction are not only upset mentally but are all unbalanced physically. No matter how calm and controlled they seemingly may be, no one can under such circumstances be normal. Their disturbed circulation makes them cold, their distress makes them unstrung, sleepless. Persons they normally like, they often turn from. No one should ever be forced upon those in grief, and all over-emotional people, no matter how near or dear, should be barred absolutely. Although the knowledge that their friends love them and sorrow for them is a great solace, the nearest afflicted must be protected from any one or anything which is likely to overstrain nerves already at the threatening point, and none have the right to feel hurt if they are told they can neither be of use or be received. At such a time, to some people companionship is a comfort, others shrink from their dearest friends.””

Emily Post

About This Quote

Severe grief disrupts both mind and body, making people physically unbalanced and emotionally fragile; they need protection from further stress and should not be forced into normalcy.

In simple terms: Grief destabilizes mental and physical health, requiring gentle care and protection.

Key Takeaway

Offer compassionate space and avoid adding pressure.

Themes

grief mental health physical health compassion boundaries

Mood

empathetic reflective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • hospital recovery
  • bereavement counseling
  • family interactions
  • friend visits

Key Concepts

emotional dysregulation stress response social support

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you provide support without overwhelming?
  • What boundaries help protect the grieving?
A Different Perspective

Grief may also inspire resilience and growth over time.

3.8 out of 5 (5 ratings)

More by Emily Post

Explore all 71 Emily Post quotes

More Emotional people quotes

Browse all 23 Emotional people quotes