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Enjoy Quote by Emily Post

“The good guest is almost invisible, enjoying him or herself, communing with fellow guests, and, most of all, enjoying the generous hospitality of the hosts.” quote by Emily Post
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“The good guest is almost invisible, enjoying him or herself, communing with fellow guests, and, most of all, enjoying the generous hospitality of the hosts.”

Emily Post

About This Quote

Source Book: Etiquette in Society, Business, and Politics, 1922

A good guest blends into the gathering, appreciating both hosts and fellow guests without demanding attention.

In simple terms: Great guests are unobtrusive and appreciative.

Key Takeaway

Be present, respectful, and generous.

Themes

hospitality social grace humility gratitude

Mood

respectful gracious

Type

prescriptive observational

When to use this quote

  • formal events
  • family dinners
  • networking gatherings
  • community festivals

Key Concepts

social etiquette guest‑host dynamics generous behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance visibility and humility?
  • When is being “invisible” inappropriate?
A Different Perspective

Some cultures value outspoken participation over invisibility.

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