Arms Quote by Ellen Hopkins
“One Time, One Day between Davie and Roberta , I asked my mom why she persisted, kept on having baby after baby, She looked at me, at a spot between my eyes, blinking like I had suddenly fallen crazy. She paused before answering as if to confide would legitimize my fears. She drew a deep breath, leaned against the chair. I touched her hand and I thought she might cry. Instead she put baby Davie in my arms Pattyn, she said, it's a woman's role. I decided if it was my role, I'd rather disappear.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Crank, Ellen Hopkins, 2004
A mother explains her relentless childbearing as a duty, revealing personal sacrifice and societal expectations about gender roles.
In simple terms: A mother sees having many children as her role, despite personal cost.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and question imposed gender expectations.
Themes
family
gender roles
parenting
sacrifice
identity
Mood
reflective
empathetic
thoughtful
Type
narrative
personal
social commentary
When to use this quote
- discussing family expectations
- supporting mothers
- examining gender norms
- personal decision making
Key Concepts
social expectations
maternal identity
psychological conflict
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations shape your view of gender roles?
- How can we support mothers beyond traditional narratives?
A Different Perspective
The quote may romanticize hardship and overlook systemic issues.
