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Accountants Quote by Ellen Goodman

“The average parent may, for example, plant an artist or fertilize a ballet dancer and end up with a certified public accountant. We cannot train children along chicken wire to make them grow in the right direction. Tying them to stakes is frowned upon, even in Massachusetts.” quote by Ellen Goodman
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“The average parent may, for example, plant an artist or fertilize a ballet dancer and end up with a certified public accountant. We cannot train children along chicken wire to make them grow in the right direction. Tying them to stakes is frowned upon, even in Massachusetts.”

Ellen Goodman

About This Quote

Source Essay: "The Parent Trap", The New York Times, 1995

Parents cannot force specific talents; children develop uniquely despite attempts to control.

In simple terms: Parents shouldn't try to shape children into specific careers.

Key Takeaway

Allow children to find their own paths.

Themes

parenting individuality expectations growth

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

reflective educational

When to use this quote

  • career guidance
  • child upbringing
  • talent nurturing

Key Concepts

developmental psychology education theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance guidance with freedom?
  • What signs show a child’s authentic interests?
A Different Perspective

Over‑guidance can stifle creativity.

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