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Marriage Quote by Edith Wharton

“Their long years together had shown him that it did not so much matter if marriage was a dull duty, as long as it kept the dignity of a duty: lapsing from that, it became a mere battle of ugly appetites. Looking about him, he honoured his own past, and mourned for it. After all, there was good in…” quote by Edith Wharton
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““Their long years together had shown him that it did not so much matter if marriage was a dull duty, as long as it kept the dignity of a duty: lapsing from that, it became a mere battle of ugly appetites. Looking about him, he honoured his own past, and mourned for it. After all, there was good in the old ways.””

Edith Wharton

About This Quote

Source Novel: The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton, 1905

Marriage is valued for its dignity and stability, even if it feels routine, because losing that respect turns it into selfish conflict.

In simple terms: Marriage matters for dignity, not excitement.

Key Takeaway

Preserve respect in relationships.

Themes

marriage dignity routine conflict

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • long‑term partnership
  • social expectations

Key Concepts

social contract personal honor

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of your relationship give it meaning?
  • How can routine be honored without stagnation?
A Different Perspective

If duty becomes oppressive, it can breed resentment.

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