Marriage Quote by Edith Wharton
““Their long years together had shown him that it did not so much matter if marriage was a dull duty, as long as it kept the dignity of a duty: lapsing from that, it became a mere battle of ugly appetites. Looking about him, he honoured his own past, and mourned for it. After all, there was good in the old ways.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton, 1905
Marriage is valued for its dignity and stability, even if it feels routine, because losing that respect turns it into selfish conflict.
In simple terms: Marriage matters for dignity, not excitement.
Preserve respect in relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family life
- long‑term partnership
- social expectations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of your relationship give it meaning?
- How can routine be honored without stagnation?
If duty becomes oppressive, it can breed resentment.