Advisable Quote by Oscar Wilde
““Speak frankly, I am not in favour of long engagements. They give people the opportunity of finding out each other’s character before marriage, which I think is never advisable””
About This Quote
Source Play: An Ideal Husband, 1895
Long courtships reveal character flaws, making marriage risky; brief engagements preserve mystery and protect relationships.
In simple terms: Shorter courtships may be safer for marriage.
Key Takeaway
Consider concise, honest dating periods.
Themes
marriage
courtship
trust
character assessment
Mood
witty
skeptical
reflective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating advice
- marriage counseling
- family expectations
- cultural traditions
Key Concepts
social norms
risk management
psychology of intimacy
Questions to Reflect On
- What are the benefits of knowing a partner quickly?
- How can trust be built without long courtships?
A Different Perspective
Rapid judgments may overlook compatibility.
