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Advisable Quote by Peter Ustinov

“Marriage is like a three-speed gearbox - affection, friendship, love. It is not advisable to crash your gears and go right through to love straightaway. You need to ease your way through. The basis of love is respect, and that needs to be learned from affection and friendship.” quote by Peter Ustinov
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“Marriage is like a three-speed gearbox - affection, friendship, love. It is not advisable to crash your gears and go right through to love straightaway. You need to ease your way through. The basis of love is respect, and that needs to be learned from affection and friendship.”

Peter Ustinov

About This Quote

Love develops through stages of affection and friendship before reaching deeper intimacy.

In simple terms: Love grows from affection to friendship to love.

Key Takeaway

Nurture each stage before rushing to love.

Themes

love friendship respect

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage
  • long‑term partnerships

Key Concepts

relationships psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you build affection and friendship first?
  • What signs show love is ready to deepen?
A Different Perspective

Skipping steps can weaken lasting bonds.

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