Advisable Quote by Peter Ustinov
“Marriage is like a three-speed gearbox - affection, friendship, love. It is not advisable to crash your gears and go right through to love straightaway. You need to ease your way through. The basis of love is respect, and that needs to be learned from affection and friendship.”
About This Quote
Love develops through stages of affection and friendship before reaching deeper intimacy.
In simple terms: Love grows from affection to friendship to love.
Nurture each stage before rushing to love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- long‑term partnerships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you build affection and friendship first?
- What signs show love is ready to deepen?
Skipping steps can weaken lasting bonds.