Advisable Quote by Oscar Wilde
“Long engagements give people the opportunity of finding out each other's character before marriage, which is never advisable.”
About This Quote
Source Play: A Woman of No Importance, 1893
Long courtships allow partners to discover true character, but they can also reveal incompatibilities that make marriage risky.
In simple terms: Extended dating shows character, yet may expose flaws before commitment.
Key Takeaway
Beware of prolonged dating without clear intentions.
Themes
relationships
marriage
character
courtship
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advisory
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- engagement
- pre‑marital counseling
- relationship planning
Key Concepts
psychology
compatibility
risk assessment
Questions to Reflect On
- Is prolonged dating helping or hindering your relationship?
- How can you assess character early?
A Different Perspective
Long engagements may create false security and delay decisive action.
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