Sex Quote by Charles Bukowski
““Generally, I decided, it was better to wait, if you had any feeling for the individual. If you hated her right off, it was better to fuck her right off; if you didn't, it was better to wait, then fuck her and hate her later on.””
About This Quote
Source Novel excerpt, "Women", 1978
Choosing to delay intimacy can lead to later resentment; immediate rejection may avoid future conflict.
In simple terms: Delay can cause later hate; immediate rejection may prevent it.
Key Takeaway
Consider honesty over manipulation in relationships.
Themes
relationships
sexual ethics
human behavior
Mood
provocative
reflective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- relationship counseling
- literary analysis
- creative writing
- psychology
Key Concepts
emotional consequences
consent
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it ever justified to manipulate intimacy?
- How does honesty affect emotional outcomes?
A Different Perspective
Advice may endorse harmful attitudes toward consent.
