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Barriers Quote by Brené Brown

“One of the greatest barriers to connection is the cultural importance we place on "going it alone." Somehow we've come to equate success with not needing anyone. Many of us are willing to extend a helping hand, but we're very reluctant to reach out for help when we need it ourselves. It's as if…” quote by Brené Brown
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“One of the greatest barriers to connection is the cultural importance we place on "going it alone." Somehow we've come to equate success with not needing anyone. Many of us are willing to extend a helping hand, but we're very reluctant to reach out for help when we need it ourselves. It's as if we've divided the world into "those who offer help" and "those who need help." The truth is that we are both.”

Brené Brown

About This Quote

Cultural emphasis on self‑reliance hinders connection; both offering and seeking help are essential for true success.

In simple terms: Alone‑ness blocks connection; help is mutual.

Key Takeaway

Embrace both giving and receiving help.

Themes

psychology community vulnerability

Mood

empathetic encouraging

Type

social motivational

When to use this quote

  • team projects
  • support groups
  • peer mentorship

Key Concepts

interdependence social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we shift the narrative on independence?
  • What steps encourage asking for help?
A Different Perspective

Changing ingrained beliefs can be difficult.

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