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Adversity Quote by Brene Brown

“Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have common language and a shared lens to see problems.” quote by Brene Brown
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“Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have common language and a shared lens to see problems.”

Brene Brown

About This Quote

Source Book: "Daring Greatly", 2012

Highlights self‑protection in relationships and the need for shared language to foster change.

In simple terms: Shared language aids change.

Key Takeaway

Communicate openly.

Themes

relationships vulnerability communication

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

self‑help relationship

When to use this quote

  • couples counseling
  • team meetings
  • family discussions
  • peer support

Key Concepts

emotional intelligence conflict resolution

Questions to Reflect On

  • What habits reinforce protective distance?
  • How can you build a shared lens?
A Different Perspective

Changing language alone may not solve deep issues.

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