Adversity Quote by Brene Brown
“Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have common language and a shared lens to see problems.”
About This Quote
Source Book: "Daring Greatly", 2012
Highlights self‑protection in relationships and the need for shared language to foster change.
In simple terms: Shared language aids change.
Communicate openly.
Themes
Mood
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When to use this quote
- couples counseling
- team meetings
- family discussions
- peer support
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What habits reinforce protective distance?
- How can you build a shared lens?
Changing language alone may not solve deep issues.