Sex Quotes by Jessica Valenti

9 Sex quotes by Jessica Valenti

Jessica Valenti’s nine concise lines address modern relationships and consent, delivering a clear, up‑to‑date perspective on intimacy.

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[Virginity is] a cultural ideology that conflates passivity - the act of not having sex - with superior morality.

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There were a WHOLE LOTTA us not having sex at Harvard . . . but none of us thought that that was…

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“By erasing any nuance and complexity about porn and sexuality, the virginity movement gives young women only two choices of who they…

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Present-day American society-whether through pop culture, religion, or institutions-conflates sexuality and morality constantly. Idolizing virginity as a stand-in for women’s morality means…

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Sex for pleasure, for fun, or even for building relationships is completely absent from our national conversation. Yet taking the joy out…

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The studies about differences between the sexes that you see kind of get propped up in the media are more often than…

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I think virginity is fine, just as I think having sex is fine. I don't really care what women do sexually, and…

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“Perhaps it’s true that in our sex-saturated culture it does take a certain amount of self-discipline to resist having sex, but restraint…

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“If being premenstrual is “innocence,” does that make those of us with periods guilty? And this really gets to the heart of…

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“What is closer to the truth is that when confronted with the love you deserve, it is easier to mock it than accept it.”

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I think we get into very dangerous territory when we start to define who can and cannot be a feminist. It's such a slippery…

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It used to be, if you wanted to have a strong, influential voice in the feminist movement, you really needed to be part of…

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The implications of likability are long-lasting and serious. Women adjust their behavior to be likable and as a result have less power in the…

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I think I was in high school, actually, and it was a guidance counselor or someone said, you know, you're just too loud; like…

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The only purpose of an engagement ring is to show you 'belong' to someone, and your man makes bank.

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Something I say a lot when it comes to anti-feminist stereotypes is that they exist for a reason. The stereotypes of feminists as ugly,…

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Even the notion that women should have children at all is based on the idea that a woman's inherent and most important role is…

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I do think that there is a real crisis of masculinity that's happening in America. I think the problem is - the way it's…

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Young women know that something is off; they know that the world is a messed-up place. They know that the world is a sexist…

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“I’m talking about the soul-crushing drudgery of day-to-day parenthood that we’re too embarrassed to talk about. The boredom, the stress, the nagging dissatisfaction, and…

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