...some men say get them crying on your shoulder and you…
““...some men say get them crying on your shoulder and you have the sheets half-unfurled already. Other fellows say get them laughing. I say get them drunk. I ordered up more Riesling...””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The speaker suggests using alcohol, humor, or emotion to lower defenses and create intimacy, preferring intoxication as a means to connect.
In simple terms: Use alcohol or humor to lower defenses and create intimacy.
Key Takeaway
Consider using humor or shared experiences to connect.
Themes
connection
intimacy
humor
alcohol
social dynamics
Mood
playful
candid
provocative
Type
Drunk:1
Humour:1
Russian revolution:0
Sex:0
Wine:1
Women:0
Say Drunk:0
Say Crying:0
Crying Shoulder:0
Drunk Ordered:0
When to use this quote
- dating
- social gatherings
- networking
- therapy sessions
- team building
Key Concepts
social influence
psychology
courtship
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it ethical to use intoxication to persuade?
- What non‑alcoholic alternatives achieve similar intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Reliance on alcohol can be harmful and unethical.