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“I'm real ambivalent about [working mothers]. Those of use who have been in the women's movement for a long time know that we've talked a good game of "go out and fulfill your dreams" and "be everything you were meant to be." But by the same token, we want daughters-in-law who are going to stay…” quote by Erma Bombeck
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“I'm real ambivalent about [working mothers]. Those of use who have been in the women's movement for a long time know that we've talked a good game of "go out and fulfill your dreams" and "be everything you were meant to be." But by the same token, we want daughters-in-law who are going to stay home and raise our grandchildren.”

Erma Bombeck

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Women are pressured to pursue careers while also being expected to fulfill traditional domestic roles, revealing a double standard.

In simple terms: Women face conflicting expectations at work and home.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and challenge contradictory societal expectations.

Themes

gender roles work‑life balance double standards

Mood

reflective critical hopeful

Type

social commentary advocacy

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • family discussions
  • policy advocacy
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

feminism social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you support women navigating these pressures?
  • What policies could reduce this conflict?
A Different Perspective

Changing expectations may be slow and face resistance.

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