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As long as the "woman's work" that some men do is socially…

“As long as the "woman's work" that some men do is socially devalued, as long as it is defined as woman's work, as long as it's tacked onto a "regular" work day, men who share it are likely to develop the same jagged mouth and frazzled hair as the coffee-mug mom. The image of the new man is like…” quote by Arlie Russell Hochschild
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“As long as the "woman's work" that some men do is socially devalued, as long as it is defined as woman's work, as long as it's tacked onto a "regular" work day, men who share it are likely to develop the same jagged mouth and frazzled hair as the coffee-mug mom. The image of the new man is like the image of the supermom: it obscures the strain.”

Arlie Russell Hochschild

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She argues that when women's work is undervalued and added to men's duties, men adopt stress markers similar to overburdened mothers.

In simple terms: Undervalued women's work burdens everyone.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and value all labor equally.

Themes

gender roles work-life balance valuation stress inequality

Mood

reflective concerned thoughtful

Type

analysis call to action

When to use this quote

  • household chores
  • parenting duties
  • career planning
  • policy making

Key Concepts

emotional labor social valuation role strain

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can workplaces better recognize unpaid labor?
  • What policies could reduce gendered work strain?
A Different Perspective

Changing deep-seated societal norms is slow and faces resistance.

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