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“Matthew knew that phrenology was nonsense, and yet, years later, he found himself making judgments similar to those made by his father; slippery people looked slippery; they really did. And how we become like our parents! How their scorned advice - based, we felt in our superiority, on prejudiced…” quote by Alexander McCall Smith
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““Matthew knew that phrenology was nonsense, and yet, years later, he found himself making judgments similar to those made by his father; slippery people looked slippery; they really did. And how we become like our parents! How their scorned advice - based, we felt in our superiority, on prejudiced and muddled folk wisdom - how their opinions are subsequently borne out by our own discoveries and sense of the world, one after one. And as this happens, we realise with increasing horror that proposition which we would never have entertained before: our mothers were right!””

Alexander McCall Smith

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We often repeat our parents' biases, even when we know they’re flawed, and later discover they were right in unexpected ways.

In simple terms: We inherit and later confirm our parents' flawed judgments.

Key Takeaway

Question your inherited biases and test them against evidence.

Themes

inheritance bias family influence

Mood

reflective conflicted

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • parenting advice
  • personal decision making
  • self‑reflection
  • intergenerational learning

Key Concepts

psychology social learning confirmation bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • What biases have you inherited?
  • How can you critically evaluate family wisdom?
A Different Perspective

Our own discoveries may reinforce the very prejudices we thought we rejected.

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