The very success of the modern American family - where kids get punctually to SAT-tutoring classes, the mortgage gets paid, the second-story… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I am stricken with the peculiar curse of being a 21st-century woman who makes more than the man she's living with -… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I cohabited for 20 years with my longtime husband and father of my two now-teen daughters in a stable family household. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
In the end, we all want a wife. But the home has become increasingly invaded by the ethos of work, work, work,… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I am shamed to realize that in my marriage, my daughters never heard their father and me fight, which also meant, perhaps,… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Having blown up my own long-term marriage via an extramarital affair, followed by a traumatic divorce, I tend to think of love… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Some of us stay married because we're in competition with our divorcing 1960s and 1970s parents, who made such a hash of… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Just because marriage didn't work for us doesn't mean we don't believe in the institution. Just because our own marital track records… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
When husbands and wives not only co-work but try to co-homemake, as post-feminist and well-intentioned as it is, out goes the clear… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
My guitarist husband, Mike, and writer me are the old-fashioned kind of bohemians. Not 'fro-haired hipsters gyrating in iPod ads, but the… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
Struggling with my finances, nudging toward 50, I sometimes daydream about being happily married to a matching frugaholic husband in a matching… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share Image
I agree that mommy wars are not good for any mothers: that such wars are time and effort wasted. — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
Recently it was pointed out to me - in a kind of hurtful way, to be honest - that people in Los Angeles are… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
Beating up on public schools is not just our nation's favorite blood sport, but also a favorite conversational entertainment of the well-off - like… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
The terror of the ordinary is what keeps many affluent, educated parents and their kids out of the merely 'decent' schools, the ones that… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
I am shamed to realize that in my marriage, my daughters never heard their father and me fight, which also meant, perhaps, that we… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
We all fantasize about work that uses our creativity, is self-directed, happens during the hours we choose, and occurs in an attractively lit setting… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
The bad news in our most cosmopolitan and vibrant cities is that many middle-class people can no longer afford to live in 'middle-class' school… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
I find I'm the sort of harried working mother who has difficulty scheduling in a bit of rest amid the Ptolemaically complicated interlocking gears… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
I don't know how it's going for my sisters, but as my 40s and Verizon bills and mortgage payments roll on, I seem to… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
I think live music is really, really important. And I think it's very important to do together. It's much more fun to play to… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
Just because marriage didn't work for us doesn't mean we don't believe in the institution. Just because our own marital track records are mixed… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
In the end, the real wisdom of menopause may be in questioning how fun or even sane this chore wheel called modern life actually… — Sandra Tsing Loh Copy Share
