Drink Quote by W H Auden
“What people don't realize is that intimacy has its conventions as well as ordinary social intercourse. There are three cardinal rules -- don't take somebody else's boyfriend unless you've been specifically invited to do so, don't take a drink without being asked, and keep a scrupulous accounting in financial matters.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: "The Unknown Citizen", 1939 (interpretive paraphrase)
Points out that intimacy follows social rules, urging respect and transparency in relationships and finances.
In simple terms: Intimacy follows social conventions.
Key Takeaway
Respect boundaries and be transparent.
Themes
relationships
ethics
social norms
Mood
thoughtful
serious
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- workplace collaborations
- family gatherings
- financial planning
Key Concepts
intimacy
consent
financial honesty
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance rules with authenticity?
- When have you navigated a boundary successfully?
A Different Perspective
Strict rules may stifle genuine connection if applied rigidly.
