A healthy person goes 'Yes,' 'No,' and 'Whoopee!' An unhealthy person goes 'Yes, but,' 'No, but,' and 'No whoopee. — Eric Berne Health Copy Share Image
A winner fulfills his contract with the world and with himself. That is, he sets out to do something, says that he… — Eric Berne Committed Copy Share Image
Games are a compromise between intimacy and keeping intimacy away. — Eric Berne Compromise Copy Share Image
Every man must, in a measure, be alone in the world. No heart was ever cast in the same mould as that… — Eric Berne Bears Copy Share Image
Each person decides in early childhood how he will live and how he will die... His trivial behavior may be decided by… — Eric Berne Bed Copy Share Image
The destiny of every human being is decided by what goes on inside his skull when confronted by what goes on outside… — Eric Berne Destiny Copy Share Image
“Beautiful friendships” are often based on the fact that the players complement each other with great economy and satisfaction, so that there… — Eric Berne Beauty Copy Share Image
A loser doesn't know what he'll do if he loses, but talks about what he'll do if he wins, and a winner… — Eric Berne Failure Copy Share Image
“The essential and similar feature of both procedures and rituals is that they are stereotyped. Once the first transaction has been initiated,… — Eric Berne Copy Share Image
Each person designs his own life, freedom gives him the power to carry out his own designs, and power gives the freedom… — Eric Berne Design Copy Share Image
The eternal problem of the human being is how to structure his waking hours — Eric Berne Hours Copy Share Image
Some say that one-sided love is better than none, but like half a loaf of bread, it is likely to grow hard… — Eric Berne Bread Copy Share Image
“Society frowns upon candidness, except in privacy; good sense knows that it can always be abused; and the Child fears it because… — Eric Berne Children Copy Share Image
It is better to be a slave to your beloved woman than a free man to the unloved one. — Eric Berne Be a slave Copy Share Image
Awareness requires living in the here and now, and not in the elsewhere, the past or the future. — Eric Berne Awareness Copy Share Image
The moment a little boy is concerned with which is a jay and which is a sparrow, he can no longer see… — Eric Berne Birds Copy Share Image
Human life [is] ... a process of filling in time until the arrival of death, or Santa Claus, with very little choice,… — Eric Berne Arrivals Copy Share Image
“But wether I am faking on a player piano, or striking the chords with the power of my own mind and hands,… — Eric Berne Life Copy Share Image
Losers spend time explaining why they lost. Losers spend their lives thinking about what they're going to do. They rarely enjoy doing… — Eric Berne End time Copy Share Image
Such a woman is called "Mother's FRIEND" always ready to give judicious Parental advice and living vicariously on the experience of others — Eric Berne Advice Copy Share Image
“Pastimes and games are substitutes for the real living of real intimacy.” — Eric Berne Life Copy Share Image
“In short, a diamond bracelet is a much more honest instrument of courtship than a perforated stomach. She has the option of… — Eric Berne Copy Share Image