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Giving Quote by Toni Morrison

“Gimme hate, Lord,” he whimpered. “I’ll take hate any day. But don’t give me love. I can’t take no more love, Lord. I can’t carry it...It’s too heavy. Jesus, you know, you know all about it. Ain’t it heavy? Jesus? Ain’t love heavy?” quote by Toni Morrison
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“Gimme hate, Lord,” he whimpered. “I’ll take hate any day. But don’t give me love. I can’t take no more love, Lord. I can’t carry it...It’s too heavy. Jesus, you know, you know all about it. Ain’t it heavy? Jesus? Ain’t love heavy?”

Toni Morrison

About This Quote

Source Novel: Song of Solomon, 1977

The speaker feels love is burdensome, preferring hate as a simpler, less demanding emotion.

In simple terms: Love feels heavy; hate feels lighter.

Key Takeaway

Consider the weight of love before rejecting it.

Themes

love hate burden spirituality faith

Mood

somber conflicted

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • spiritual confession
  • emotional coping
  • conflict with faith

Key Concepts

psychology religion emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why is love perceived as heavy?
  • Can hate ever be a healthy coping mechanism?
A Different Perspective

Hate can be destructive despite seeming lighter.

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