Air Quote by Timothy Shay Arthur
“A husband and wife should resolve never to wrangle with each other; never to bandy words or indulge in the least ill-humour. Never! I say; NEVER. Wrangling, even in jest, and putting on an air of ill-humour merely to tease, becomes earnest by practice.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Old Homestead, 1869
Avoid petty arguments and sarcasm in marriage to maintain harmony and respect.
In simple terms: Don’t argue or be sarcastic with your spouse.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate kindness and patience.
Themes
marriage
communication
respect
Mood
calm
thoughtful
Type
advice
relationship
When to use this quote
- daily conversations
- family gatherings
- stressful moments
- online chats
Key Concepts
conflict avoidance
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you handle teasing that turns sour?
- What habits foster a positive tone?
A Different Perspective
Humor can mask underlying resentment if unchecked.
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