Communication Quote by Tedd Tripp
““Some people think listening is what you do between opportunities to say something. During listening times they don’t listen at all. They are deciding what to say. Don’t be such a parent. The Proverbs remind you that the fool does not delight in understanding, but in airing his own opinion (Proverbs 18:2).””
About This Quote
Source Sermon: Parenting Guidance, 2015
Listening is often used as a pause to plan a response rather than to understand, leading to missed connection and shallow dialogue.
In simple terms: People often listen just to reply, not to understand.
Listen to understand, not to respond.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family meals
- team meetings
- conflict resolution
- coaching sessions
- friendship talks
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice listening without planning your reply?
- What habits help you stay present in conversation?
If you focus on replying, you may never truly hear the other person’s needs.