First-meeting Quote by Ted Bun
““Emerging from the next chalet in the row was a young woman, probably mid-twenties he guessed, about medium height and build, with dark brown bobbed hair. She was clutching an arm full of books and a cup of coffee. That he had taken all this in, in a single glance, was remarkable. As he had simultaneously taken the fact, she was absolutely naked… “Good morning Miss!” “Miss? I never call anyone Miss! She could be married! A radical feminist! And I have just insulted her! I should have said Mizz, or Mam’, Oh God!” The thoughts raced through Addy’s panic-stricken mind. “There has been a spot of trouble at the clubhouse.” Professional, act professional. “I am making a few enquiries, I’d like to come back and ask you a few questions when …” Professional, you’re a professional, Man up! “… When you have … got yourself sorted out.” Phew!!””
About This Quote
Source Fiction: Short story excerpt, unknown publication
A narrator’s nervous encounter with a woman leads to frantic, self‑critical thoughts and attempts at professionalism.
In simple terms: Anxiety causes overthinking and self‑judgment in social interactions.
Pause, breathe, and respond calmly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- workplace
- public speaking
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does anxiety affect first meetings?
- What strategies help maintain professionalism?
The humorous tone may downplay genuine anxiety.