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First-meeting Quote by Ted Bun

“Emerging from the next chalet in the row was a young woman, probably mid-twenties he guessed, about medium height and build, with dark brown bobbed hair. She was clutching an arm full of books and a cup of coffee. That he had taken all this in, in a single glance, was remarkable. As he had…” quote by Ted Bun
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““Emerging from the next chalet in the row was a young woman, probably mid-twenties he guessed, about medium height and build, with dark brown bobbed hair. She was clutching an arm full of books and a cup of coffee. That he had taken all this in, in a single glance, was remarkable. As he had simultaneously taken the fact, she was absolutely naked… “Good morning Miss!” “Miss? I never call anyone Miss! She could be married! A radical feminist! And I have just insulted her! I should have said Mizz, or Mam’, Oh God!” The thoughts raced through Addy’s panic-stricken mind. “There has been a spot of trouble at the clubhouse.” Professional, act professional. “I am making a few enquiries, I’d like to come back and ask you a few questions when …” Professional, you’re a professional, Man up! “… When you have … got yourself sorted out.” Phew!!””

Ted Bun

About This Quote

Source Fiction: Short story excerpt, unknown publication

A narrator’s nervous encounter with a woman leads to frantic, self‑critical thoughts and attempts at professionalism.

In simple terms: Anxiety causes overthinking and self‑judgment in social interactions.

Key Takeaway

Pause, breathe, and respond calmly.

Themes

social anxiety first impressions professionalism gender dynamics humor

Mood

nervous humorous self‑critical

Type

First-meeting:1 Good morning:1 Humour:1 Miss:1 Oh god:1 Radical feminist:1 Romance:1 Young woman:1 Man U:1 Miss Miss:1 Morning Miss:1 Woman Probably:1 Said Mizz:1

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • workplace
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

psychology communication social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does anxiety affect first meetings?
  • What strategies help maintain professionalism?
A Different Perspective

The humorous tone may downplay genuine anxiety.

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