Marriage Quote by Susanna Clarke
““In short they felt that they should like to have the pleasure of looking at Lady Pole again, and so they told Sir Walter - rather than asked him - that he missed his wife. He replied that he did not. But this was not allowed to be possible; it was well known that newly married gentlemen were never happy apart from their wives; the briefest of absences could depress a new husband's spirits and interfere with his digestion.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell, 2004
The passage humorously critiques the superstition that newlyweds cannot be apart without health effects, highlighting social expectations and absurdities of the era.
In simple terms: Newlyweds are thought to be physically weak when separated.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and question outdated beliefs about marriage.
Themes
marriage
health
social norms
humor
superstition
Mood
wry
ironic
thoughtful
Type
literary
humorous
social commentary
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- historical analysis
- cultural critique
- medical folklore
Key Concepts
Victorian social expectations
psychosomatic health
gender roles
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you accept any lingering myths about marriage?
- How do cultural expectations shape health perceptions?
A Different Perspective
Such beliefs ignore individual resilience and modern medical understanding.
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