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Grief Quote by Susan J. Elliott

“The first thing to know is that grief is not a straight line. It doesn’t happen in “stages,” as is commonly thought; it happens in phases. The first phase is shock or disbelief; the middle phase is one of review, relinquishment, and great emotion; and the final phase is reorganization…” quote by Susan J. Elliott
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““The first thing to know is that grief is not a straight line. It doesn’t happen in “stages,” as is commonly thought; it happens in phases. The first phase is shock or disbelief; the middle phase is one of review, relinquishment, and great emotion; and the final phase is reorganization, integration, and acceptance.””

Susan J. Elliott

About This Quote

Source Book: Making Grief Work by Susan J. Elliott, 2005

Grief unfolds in unpredictable phases, not a linear set of stages, moving from shock to acceptance.

In simple terms: Grief is messy and non‑linear.

Key Takeaway

Accept the ebb and flow of emotions.

Themes

grief healing emotional cycles

Mood

empathetic hopeful

Type

psychological inspirational

When to use this quote

  • loss of a loved one
  • divorce
  • career setback

Key Concepts

non‑linear process psychological adaptation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What phase are you experiencing now?
  • How can you support someone in the middle phase?
A Different Perspective

Stages model oversimplifies grief.

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