Grief Quote by Susan J. Elliott
““The first thing to know is that grief is not a straight line. It doesn’t happen in “stages,” as is commonly thought; it happens in phases. The first phase is shock or disbelief; the middle phase is one of review, relinquishment, and great emotion; and the final phase is reorganization, integration, and acceptance.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Making Grief Work by Susan J. Elliott, 2005
Grief unfolds in unpredictable phases, not a linear set of stages, moving from shock to acceptance.
In simple terms: Grief is messy and non‑linear.
Accept the ebb and flow of emotions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- loss of a loved one
- divorce
- career setback
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What phase are you experiencing now?
- How can you support someone in the middle phase?
Stages model oversimplifies grief.