Family Quote by Susan J. Elliott

““Goal setting works best when you have long-term goals and short-term goals in different areas of your life. Of course, you’re not going to have goals in every area, but you want to choose enough different ones to sustain your interest. Some examples of goal areas are Family relationships and your home; Humanist, volunteer, philanthropy, ethical; Social, cultural, travel, entertainment; Finances, career, education; Physical, diet, exercise; and Fun.””

Susan J. Elliott

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ 3.3 out of 5 (9 ratings)

More by Susan J. Elliott

“You both have been through a trying time, and you must face that a break will do each of you a world of good. Now is the time to reassess where you’ve been and where you’re going, even if you’re going there together. You still need to take stock of yourself and the relationship so that you can figure out…

Susan J. Elliott

“After a breakup, you may also feel physically and mentally incapacitated in some way. You have trouble sleeping, or you sleep too much. You become accident-prone. You have trouble putting a sentence together. You feel scattered and overwhelmed by feelings. You may doubt your ability to function, and maybe your sanity. The emotions seem so big and so unmanageable that…

Susan J. Elliott

“My therapist would later explain to me that “water seeks its own level” and that your partner’s flaws and issues usually go hand in hand with your own. A person chooses a partner with a similar degree of “brokenness” and does a dance of dysfunction where they both know the steps. Therefore, one person cannot be so much healthier than…

Susan J. Elliott

“When you are asking why, when, how questions or trying to figure out how he or she could do what was done or how you can change into the person he or she will love, tell yourself, “It doesn’t matter, it doesn’t matter, it doesn’t matter.” Yes, three times is the charm with this particular mantra. Whenever you are ruminating…

Susan J. Elliott

“Several of my clients, students, and readers have come to realize that they spent all their adult lives in relationships in which they were only running from grief. One woman’s fear of loss was so chronic that, from the time she was a teenager, she never left a relationship until she had started a new one. She said, “I thought…

Susan J. Elliott

“The pain of heartache often comes in unpredictable episodes of intense pain that come and go. These episodes are called grief “spasms”—you feel overwhelmed…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

“At first you may feel shock or disbelief that a loss has occurred or an inability to recognize that it was really a loss.…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

“The first thing to know is that grief is not a straight line. It doesn’t happen in “stages,” as is commonly thought; it happens…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

“Stop worrying about what is wrong with you. While there might be things about you that need improvement, that doesn’t mean that you are…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

“Learning that “water seeks its own level,” I was able to understand what issues needed attention by observing the people I was attracting and…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

“Don’t ask for justifications for present or past behavior, or say how much you’ve been hurt. Yes, there are things you want this person…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

“Time does not heal all wounds. If it did, there would be no unresolved grief and no hurt from long ago that still upsets…

Susan J. Elliott

Image

Explore all 18 Susan J. Elliott quotes

More Family quotes

I was 3-years-old - to this day it is a vivid memory. My family and I were on a boat, catching fish. As one fish was caught, he was writhing, then he was thrown against the side of the boat. You couldn't disguise what it was. This was what we did to animals to eat them. The animal went from…

Joaquin Phoenix

One can put some trust in the gratitude of a sovereign, and also in that of his family; under certain conditions, one can even…

Otto von Bismarck

Image

Social responsibility above the level of family, or at most of tribe, requires imagination-- devotion, loyalty, all the higher virtues -- which a man…

Robert A. Heinlein

Image

“ever day Maureen is Selfish To her friend and Family One she get mad at her friend and family and She need to Grad…

Maureen Andeson

Image

Our concept of a family holiday was going to a guest house in the Lake district or Wales where walking was part of the…

Roger Bannister

Image

“So Jace is my actual family," Kit said. "But I can't go live with him, because him and his hot girlfriend are going off…

Cassandra Clare

Image

I have friends and family that identify as LGBTQ.

Nancy Mace

Image

Her dignity consists in being unknown to the world; her glory is in the esteem of her husband; her pleasures in the happiness of…

Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Image

It's not just that families can't buy a home or start a business without some savings tucked away.

Jim Cooper

Image

“She knew how to play him so very well. He slipped his hand around hers. "Friends," he repeated roughly. Her smile was bright enough to light up the room-and make him see stars. "Excellent! I'm so pleased. And now I really should go. I don't want to keep your family waiting." His family. She was going out with his family.…

Kathryn Smith