Anxious Quote by Susan Forward
““Just as verbally and physically abused children internalize blame, so do incest victims. However, in incest, the blame is compounded by the shame. The belief that ‘it’s all my fault’ is never more intense than with the incest victim. This belief fosters strong feelings of self-loathing and shame. In addition to having somehow to cope with the actual incest, the victim must now guard against being caught and exposed as a ‘dirty, disgusting’ person””
About This Quote
Source Book: Healing the Child Within, 1990
Victims of incest internalize intense self-blame and shame, worsening trauma beyond typical abuse.
In simple terms: Incest victims often feel extreme guilt and shame.
Key Takeaway
Address self-blame in healing.
Themes
trauma
shame
self-blame
Mood
empathetic
serious
Type
therapeutic
educational
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- personal counseling
Key Concepts
psychological impact
recovery strategies
Questions to Reflect On
- How can survivors reframe self-blame?
- What support systems reduce shame?
A Different Perspective
Healing may be hindered by societal stigma and secrecy.
