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“One noteworthy study suggests that people who suppress negative emotions tend to leak those emotions later in unexpected ways. The psychologist Judith Grob asked people to hide their emotions when she showed them disgusting images. She even had them hold pens in their mouths to prevent them from…” quote by Susan Cain
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““One noteworthy study suggests that people who suppress negative emotions tend to leak those emotions later in unexpected ways. The psychologist Judith Grob asked people to hide their emotions when she showed them disgusting images. She even had them hold pens in their mouths to prevent them from frowning. She found that this group reported feeling less disgusted by the pictures than did those who'd been allowed to react naturally. Later, however, the people who hid their emotions suffered side effects. Their memory was impaired, and the negative emotions they'd suppressed seemed to color their outlook. When Grob had them fill in the missing letter to the word "gr_ss", for example, they were more likely than others to offer "gross" rather than "grass". "People who tend to [suppress their negative emotions] regularly," concludes Grob, "might start to see their world in a more negative light." p. 223””

Susan Cain

About This Quote

Source Book: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, 2012

Suppressing negative emotions can impair memory and bias perception, leading to a more pessimistic worldview.

In simple terms: Bottling feelings harms memory and outlook.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and process emotions healthily.

Themes

psychology emotional health cognitive bias

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

informative thought‑provoking

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • education
  • workplace
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

repression memory distortion negative bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • What healthier ways can we express negative emotions?
  • How does emotional suppression affect decision making?
A Different Perspective

Suppressing emotions may provide short‑term relief but causes long‑term distortion.

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