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“When someone hurts you or harms you, even if it is a deep wound, forgive them. Forgive them NOT for their sake, but as a sign of gratitude to Allah. Why you ask? For making you the victim and not the oppressor. There is no crime in being a victim, rather it brings you closer to Allah and rids you…” quote by Suhaib Webb
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“When someone hurts you or harms you, even if it is a deep wound, forgive them. Forgive them NOT for their sake, but as a sign of gratitude to Allah. Why you ask? For making you the victim and not the oppressor. There is no crime in being a victim, rather it brings you closer to Allah and rids you of sins. But as for the oppressor, they'll have to face their Lord one day. So in reality, they are their own greatest victims.”

Suhaib Webb

About This Quote

Source Sermon: Islamic teachings on forgiveness, 2020

Forgiving others is an act of gratitude to Allah, freeing the forgiver from victimhood and sin while holding the oppressor accountable.

In simple terms: Forgive to free yourself and honor Allah.

Key Takeaway

Forgive for your own peace.

Themes

forgiveness spirituality self‑empowerment

Mood

reflective serene

Type

spiritual ethical

When to use this quote

  • personal conflict resolution
  • spiritual practice
  • interpersonal relationships

Key Concepts

Islamic theology gratitude moral responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does forgiveness change your inner state?
  • What limits your ability to forgive?
A Different Perspective

Forgiveness may not change the oppressor’s behavior and can be emotionally challenging.

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