Asks Quote by Suhaib Webb
“When someone hurts you or harms you, even if it is a deep wound, forgive them. Forgive them NOT for their sake, but as a sign of gratitude to Allah. Why you ask? For making you the victim and not the oppressor. There is no crime in being a victim, rather it brings you closer to Allah and rids you of sins. But as for the oppressor, they'll have to face their Lord one day. So in reality, they are their own greatest victims.”
About This Quote
Source Sermon: Islamic teachings on forgiveness, 2020
Forgiving others is an act of gratitude to Allah, freeing the forgiver from victimhood and sin while holding the oppressor accountable.
In simple terms: Forgive to free yourself and honor Allah.
Forgive for your own peace.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal conflict resolution
- spiritual practice
- interpersonal relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does forgiveness change your inner state?
- What limits your ability to forgive?
Forgiveness may not change the oppressor’s behavior and can be emotionally challenging.